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{May 11, 2008}   Follow ur Heart Or Follow ur Mind?!!

Should u follow ur heart or Follow ur mind ??
==>If u Followed ur heart to the maximum ,It is sure that u will do wrong things…& ur mind  at this time will not have any meaning…Although the word “WRONG” don’t have a special definition !!!
U Can see that doing something is wrong while someone sees that if u DIDN”T DO this thing that will be the wrong thing!!How Confusing huhh?!!
But If we should follow our heart All the Time then Why did God Gave us the mind ??I think that he gave it to us for a reason !!& we should use it …
==>If u followed ur Mind All the Time,You will not have Fun in many situations & u will miss many things in life…Hmmm Interesting!!!
==>if u followed ur heart all the time then people will c u as a Maniac & crazy ….
==>if u followed ur Mind all the time then u will be tooo ideal & may be people say about u that u r crazy too & u r an extreme person.:s
SOOO,then what ?!!I don’t know the answer actually ..May be we should be part A heart follower & part a Mind follower…But is that Possible??!!!
Yaaa I think that it is possible…May be somepeople say “NO U can”t Be Both at the same time “..U can either be this or that !!!!!!Coz the heart always goes against the Mind…BUt Noo I don’t think so …Tha’t not what I believe….
I Believe that U should follow ur heart when it takes but Stop when it is necessary to !!
In other words,FOllow ur heart in all the cases that is related to u only…But in the things that include other people or that will affect other people…u have to take care!!At least that is what i think!!
At last there is nothing that is “Totally Wrong “or “Totally right”!!& I think this is a 2 sided sword..or that is what makes it difficult..
Enough thinking for now…I guess I will follow my heart in the next coming thing…At Least For a change From thinking:D:D…



sk says:

I like your take on this …… I believe “TRUST” is the most important virtue and its breach is the only “SIN” in this world….. and most often than not people are bound to breach its … even your closest friends mind you ……… so follow your heart “only” in cases that are related to you…



gamb says:

Thanks sk for ur comment…
It really differed with me 🙂



parentheticramblings says:

Hey Gamb,
Very interesting read… I wrote more a questioning post yesterday about this topic and that linked me to your site…

Confused… Follow Ur Heart or Ur Mind?!

I see your point of view, and you actually make a really good point in terms of following your heart to a point… its such a hard place to be placed in because normally things of the heart always involve another person which then forces your hand to realise that both have to work hand in hand… sadly at the end of the day, one has to win the battle!

Then again one comment I got reminded me of the old saying: “the biggest risk in life is not taking any!”

Great Post… think I might link permanently to it 😉

~C



gamb says:

HEy parentheticramblings,

I am happy that u liked my post …I am sure will read yours too & tell u what I think 🙂

That will make me glad if u linked to my blog permenatly…Thanks for passing by.
Regards:)



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