It is never easy to say goodbye to people who are involved in our lives. I find it hard to say bye when I am visiting my family back in Lebanon. I go every so often but usually stay for a month, which isn’t enough time to catch up with everyone. So for the time that I am there I reconnect with all my family and friends in a strong way. The bonds we form are as if we have been living close to each other forever. We have fun staying up all night, going out to places, and just enjoying the company of one another. Then the clock hits and it is time to leave back to California. It is a very bittersweet moment because in one hand you don’t want to leave your cousins, and on the other hand you kind of miss home. Why is it that saying goodbye is so hard?!
In my opinion saying goodbye is difficult because there is always a possibility that you may never see that person again. That fear that it may be the last time is difficult to accept. I know it might sound dramatic but when you are visiting family far away and you go ever couple of years it is hard to go again. Another reason is because we tend to miss the feelings and happiness that we have had with them. The emotional bonds we create are hard to forget, and the boy band “Boys 2 Men” totally agree with their song. The words describe it all:
How do I say goodbye to what we had?
The good times that made us laugh
Outweigh the bad.
I thought we’d get to see forever
But forever’s gone away
It’s so hard to say goodbye to yesterday.
I don’t know where this road
Is going to lead
All I know is where we’ve been
And what we’ve been through.
If we get to see tomorrow
I hope it’s worth all the wait
It’s so hard to say goodbye to yesterday.
And I’ll take with me the memories
To be my sunshine after the rain
It’s so hard to say goodbye to yesterday.
Now do you find it hard to say goodbye?